If Life Feels Heavy Right Now, Read This✨🤍

hyyy you, yes you —

i know you’re worrying about life and wondering why it feels so challenging for you. you keep thinking about why things don’t go according to your plans. you plan something, you hope for it, and then it just… doesn’t happen. maybe it’s about your career, maybe about personal relationships.

slowly, you start doubting your life choices. you feel confused. everything around you feels blurry — no clarity about where to go, which path to choose, or how to restart again. you feel like a failure, and at some point, you even start blaming god, asking why they put you in such a situation.

i know how it feels.

but lately, i figured out one thing that completely changed how i look at these moments.
you want to know what it is?

it’s surrendering to god.

i know, you’ve probably heard this word many times. but let me explain it simply, the way life explained it to me.

in my life too, whenever a friendship ended, at that moment it felt unbearable. i questioned everything — why did this happen? what did i do wrong? i cried, i stressed, i replayed every conversation in my head. it felt like a loss i would never recover from.

but years later, when i looked back, i realized something powerful. every single person who came into my life came with a purpose — and left with one too. each ending shaped me into a newer version of myself: stronger, more mature, more understanding, more empathetic.

but did i know then that it was necessary to become a better version of myself?
no. not at all.

because when we’re living in the moment, we only have a micro view of life. we see pain, loss, confusion. but god has a drone view. he sees everything — what’s coming, what’s harmful, what’s necessary, and what will eventually make us grow.

our plans can fail.
but his never do.

surrendering doesn’t mean giving up. it means trusting that even when things don’t make sense right now, they are still making sense somewhere beyond our understanding.

here’s a simple exercise you can try:
sit down calmly and reflect on the past 5–6 years of your life. connect the dots. think about why certain things didn’t work out, why certain people left, why certain paths closed. slowly, you’ll start seeing a bigger picture — and that picture will teach you surrender.

so don’t stress too much.
do your work honestly.
give your best.
and surrender the rest to god.

sometimes, peace begins the moment we stop fighting what we don’t yet understand. 

Life Makes Sense Only When You Look Back💫🤍